My previous post was written in anger and pain. The issues I presented have all been come to an agreed solution with her and I do not feel nearly as "fuck you" about her. In the mean time, we still have topics to discuss and I don't want to state any conclusions we may have or might come to. I am telling you this so that you're not left with the impression of my former hate, and so that maybe hanging out later today might not be so awkward.
Thank you to those who have offered their support and love. It came from the least of those I'd expect it to, and my heart has been warmed because of it.